Lots of great opportunities in trucking. Especially for women. Going out now or giving yourself a month is so 50/50 that it really just depends on how you feel about it. But there are a few things I would suggest.
1) Give yourself a full year before dating.
Get comfortable being alone and not needing someone in your life before inviting another person into your life.
2) Work on your self worth.
A abuser tears down your self worth in order to convince you that you deserve the abuse. Regain that self worth so nobody can steal it from you again.
3) Remember most men are not abusers.
Don’t become jaded and punish other men for what the abuser did.
4) Learn the signs of those that are abusers.
Watch for the tell tell signs of an abuser. The controlling, jealous, manipulative personality.
My wife was with a abuser for years and still suffers from it today. She sometimes assumes that I’ll react to things as he did even though I haven’t done so in the twelve years she’s known me. I strongly encourage her to take care of herself mentally, physically and spiritually. I want a woman who doesn’t need me around but wants me around because she loves me and I her. And I try to take care of myself too so I can give her the same in return. We are both still works in progress and fail a bit more than we succeed at times but we keep trying and that’s the important part.
Sorry for the rant. I’m tired and frankly I just hate the fact that there are people in this world that hurt others that loved and trusted them. Everyone deserves a partner who lifts them up to be the best they can be. I hope you find that person.
As for trucking. Go for it.
May I suggest that when you do that you keep an eye open to some of the better paying local jobs. Apply to jobs that you think you don’t qualify for. Because of highering guidelines women are in high demand and can get in to some great positions immediately after training.
Good luck out there.
